Parenting tips for divorced couples

The rate of divorced couples today is at an all-time high. But just because your marriage didn't work out, doesn't mean that your children have to suffer. While reaching an amicable solution with your spouse is never easy, an estranged couple needs to work together amicably so that the children aren't caught in the middle.

Whatever happened between your partner and you shouldn't change your equation with your child. And in case you're not even on talking terms with your ex, don't use your child as a means to communicate or pass on messages. This will put undue pressure on the child and will force him to take sides. In case you don't want to talk on the phone, use SMS or email to communicate.

Keep all fights and arguments away from your child. Don't make them privy to any heated discussions and don't crib or bitch about your ex partner in front of them either. If you absolutely have to vent out, do it in front of a relative or a friend. Or if you really think you need professional help, visit a therapist.

Your child also needs to share his/ her feelings. If they don't want to tell you about them, don't force them. Instead, encourage them to write them down or speak to an older sibling or a best friend that you know and trust.

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